To love is to surrender.
accept the love we receive,
honor the love we give,
seek the love we find.
When you surrender, you acknowledge
love could come from anywhere
from anyone
at anytime.
surrender
to the power and audacity of love
so it can nourish you
in ways you couldn’t possibly preempt.
To love is to be vulnerable.
to bare your thoughts
your feelings, insecurities, dirt, filth,
demons, (unfiltered) desires.
Is this what being naked feels like?
They get an insider’s view
A rare access to
what goes inside,
what brews inwardly,
what cooks underneath.
It is scary
but a non-negotiable mandate.
To love is to embrace its doppelganger–grief.
It goes hand-in-hand.
You cannot separate them
love will cause grief
love will also rescue you from it
Be prepared.
To love is to let go
Understand that it may not be reciprocated
Sit with this truth
that it may never come back
that it’s purpose may have been
something else
all along.
that is was too temporary
to befriend
To love is to be brave.
when was the last time you showed that courage?
what caused it?
what propelled it?
what saved it?
what’s left of it?
Gather them
in the palm of your hands,
in the gap between your legs,
in the air that connects your lips.